communicating about transforming judgments into gifts. Let’s use an example. Let us say that you are working in a office, for a company, and there is another being who has a position that is above yours within the company, and you are observing this being, and you’re observing this being’s sufficiency, this being’s directness, this being’s specificity, this being’s mannerism and way of approaching situations, circumstances, events… and, within your experience with this being, you start judging yourself within yourself, through comparison – comparing yourself to this being, experiencing yourself as inferior, and “less than”. And, you place yourself within an experience of absolute turmoil and inner conflict, as you day in and day out observe this being, and constantly and continuously judge, through comparison. How do one transform that judgment into gift? As follows:-
When you realize that you are comparing yourself to another being, and, within that comparison judging you, and experiencing you as anything less than who you really are, that which you are judging of that being, through comparison, “be” that. Live that. Express yourself as that. Meaning: you see this being’s specificity in completing documents, in writing, in putting together projects, working with other beings… Observe the being as yourself, and, within the observation, apply that which you observe within another within and as yourself, one and equal. But, not from the perspective of wanting to be “better than”, not from a perspective of competition; from the perspective of assisting and supporting yourself within specificity and sufficiency. And, that transforms your entire experience within the presence of that being, because, then, you actually – instead of accepting and allowing you to judge yourself, and, through comparison and seeing yourself as “less than” or inferior towards that being – you actually express gratefulness. Why gratefulness? Gratefulness from the perspective that, “I see this being is specific within completing projects, putting together projects… the way they utilize words, the way they present themselves, the way they handle situations…” and, you use that, and observe and intently have a look at how you’re able to assist and support you to be as specific, as sufficient, and, that’s how you’re able to transform judgment into gifts, for self.
So, have a look at what judgments – specifically judgments – you have towards other human beings within your world, and, you’ll find, quite interestingly, that there will be many gifts available to self through just observing the judgment accepted and allowed within self through comparison towards others. And, you know what would be perfect? Is making a list. You know… write down. Have a look at the beings in your world, make a list, and write down what judgments you’ve accepted and allowed within yourself towards yourself through comparing yourself toward that being. And, then, have a look at how you are able to assist and support yourself to transform those judgments into gifts, where you assist and support yourself to specify your effectiveness of and as self. For instance, you write down “The being in the office”, you write down, “Alright, I admire their specificity, their sufficiency within completing projects, how they handle situations, events… how they move through pressure”, and then, you observe how the being that you are observing, as yourself, is expressing and living that as themselves, and then you assist and support you, for yourself, to do the same. To become as sufficient, to become as specific – one and equal. Be certain that it is not about “enlightened self interest” from the perspective of now trying to cover up the judgments you’ve accepted and allowed within
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Portal discussions on equality in all ways see also Sunettespies and BernardPoolman
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